'The cup U give to Others, is the cup U shall Drink from' [Food for thought]
'Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam
'As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-RahmatullahiWa-Barakatuhu'
'The intelligent one must adhere to salvation by staying away from probing into the faults of people, and instead should preoccupy himself with his own faults.
Surely, whoever preoccupies himself with his own faults instead of the faults of others, will find peace and relaxation in his being and his heart will not be exhausted.
Whenever he looks to his faults and errors, then the similar faults of his brother will be easy for him to bear.
However, whoever preoccupies himself with the faults of others instead of his own, then his heart will become blind, he will become tired out and he will forget his own shortcomings.
The weakest of people is the one who criticizes others for what is in them, and the weakest from amongst them is the one who criticizes others for what is also within himself.
And whoever criticizes others, will be criticized by them.'
Truthful was he who said:-
'If you rebuke others, they'll rebuke you and do so more! And then what was hidden within you, will be on show. Someone once said in some statement of the past, A word containing wisdom and beauty so vast: If ever you mention people, then leave behind their errors For there is no error, except that yours can be said If you criticize a people for what is not within them Then that is mighty in the Sight of Allah and also men, And if you criticize them for what is also within you Then how can the one-eyed rebuke the one-eyed too? And how can people be criticized by someone who His faults are worse when all faults are diffused? When you look for other's defects, you shall indeed find them But remember that what is in you is far greater than them So grant peace to the people, and leave them to themselves For they can see your errors more than you can see yourself.'
Al-Shaybani mentioned that, "It is written in the Books that:
'As you treat others, you shall be treated, and the cup you give to others, is the cup you shall drink from'
My "Salaams " To You All.
Y a s m i n.
"Never Despair Of The Mercy Of Allah"
' Son of Adam! You are nothing but a number of days, whenever each day passes then part of you has Gone.