Monday, July 11, 2011

The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. 

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; 
Who is earning almost as much as you do; 

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as 
you have because she is as human as you are; 

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your 
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system 
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements 

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as 
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; 

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name 

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen. One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; 

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; 

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply 
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise 

One, who can be late from work once in a while deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; 

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, 
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some 
and trust her; 

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. 

But not many guys understand this...... 
Please appreciate "HER"


Who is a GIRL?
A GIRL is the most beautiful part of Gods creation. She starts compromising at a very tender age. She sacrifies her chocolates for her brother. Later she sacrifices her love for just a smile on Her Guy or Her Parents face, She sacrifices her full youth for her husband and children without complain. And finally her life ends up only by compromising for others happiness. She is that creature of God who no one can compete. Respect every Girl or Lady in your life. You will never know what she has sacrificed for you. 

"Women should not be like the moon which everyone can see uncovered; women should be like the sun which makes eyes bow down before they can see it"

When I stand before God at the end of my life,
I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left,
and could say, "I used everything you gave me."

 Zuni Ayesha

muslim hereafter and till the end - FB page.


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